The Blak Book: The Gospel of Giving a F_ck Paperback – December 21, 2025

The book the institutions warned you about.The book your therapist will love (or hate?).The book your ex should never see.The book your younger self deserved.This is not self-help.This is scripture for the ungovernable.Part manifesto, part poetic exorcism, part trauma gospel, The Blak Book is the brutally honest, feral-hearted guide for anyone who has ever been told to: calm down, be smaller, stop being dramatic, swallow their rage, hide their desire, pray the pain away, or apologize for existing.Kade Blak, a foster kid forged in fire, a daughter of chaos, a prophet of resurrection, delivers a punch-in-the-mouth theology of caring in a world that profits from your silence.In these pages, she offers:holy rage (that saves your life)real boundaries (the kind that don’t require apology)sexual honesty (the kind the institutions fear)joy as resistance (yes, joy can be punk as hell)self-worth without permissionrebellion that heals, not destroysAnd between the chapters, she writes devastatingly tender letters to her younger self—the girl who survived the foster system, the girl who met Carter, the girl who learned to stay small to stay safe. These letters alone will break readers and rebuild them with gentler hands.This book will piss off all the right people.And it will save all the right ones.WHAT EARLY READERS ARE SAYING“Jesus f***… I have never felt more seen within the pages of someone’s book. This is punk as f***.” — Liv H.“If you ever read anything, it’s this.” — Liana Z.“Kicks you in the teeth with soul searching and self-realization.” — Jennifer P."It's... wildly unsettling. I'm still working on putting some of it into words." — Christy L.“I feel my soul on these pages.” — Charlene T.“I got chills on just the foreword.” — Jinger F.“Holy s*** balls. I. N.E.E.D .T.H.I.S.” — Ashley L.If you’ve ever wrestled with faith, trauma, purity culture, rage, grief, sexuality, identity, or the suffocating weight of being “too much,” this book hands you a match, a mirror, and your name back.WHAT YOU’LL FIND INSIDE:How to stop worshipping ghostsHow to reclaim joy as a weaponHow to love without losing yourselfHow to use your anger instead of letting it use youHow to walk away from people who drain the life out of youHow to resurrect your own damn soulPlus:Hilarious lists, dangerously quotable BLAK/E/DICTION entries at the end of every chapter, feminist fire, sexual ethics, trauma wisdom, queer theology, and a closing chapter that will make you feel less alone than you’ve ever felt.THE FINAL WORD?Find your people.Build your fire.Pull your own pin.Perfect for fans of:Glennon Doyle (but feral)bell hooks (but with more profanity)Untamed (but actually trauma-informed)The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (but with soul)FleabagPatti SmithBeing f*cking DONE with silencePurchase Advisory: If You Decide to Buy the eBook…DAY 1: Toni Morrison personally shows up at your front door to ask why you hate real books.DAY 2: The ghost of Oscar Wilde appears in your bathroom mirror judging you harder than your mother ever did.DAY 3: Hemingway materializes at the foot of your bed and grunts, “Buy the paperback, coward.”DAY 7+: The spirit of Sylvia Plath randomly shows up in your rearview mirror to roast your life choices and your outfit.Choose paperback. Save yourself. Read more